There’s been a lot of discourse on Twitter lately about what constitutes an age-appropriate relationship. The general perception of May December Romances has changed pretty rapidly. Lots of movies and TV shows feature these types of relationships, most often between an older man and a borderline underage woman.
Not to let the young man and cougar version of this off the hook—there are way too many plotlines in teen shows about female teachers seducing students that are treated as “normal.”
It’s a good thing to talk about because power disparities in relationships with huge age gaps are very real, and TV and movies help to make it seem totally chill for an adult with a business and full life to date someone right out of high school.
But the topic has dipped into the absurd, especially around fictional fantasy characters. Like, yeah, we do need to send every vampire dude who dates a high school chick to jail! Also, who cares?
Twitter user @TheEpicDept joked about this trope, comparing the ages of Aragorn and Arwen from Lord of the Rings:
Uhhhhh this is not okay. Twitter do your thing 💅🏼 pic.twitter.com/CuXEbyZTOC
— War Criminal Respecter (@TheEpicDept) September 8, 2020
As you can see, Aragorn is merely 87:
And Arwen is 2700! Years! Old!
That’s messed up. How do they both look so damn good?
Aragorn is cancelled for looking that hot at that age https://t.co/nFHQRDbHZk
— Row (@MissRowie_) September 9, 2020
People were quick to pick up the joke:
— War Criminal Respecter (@TheEpicDept) September 8, 2020
For the Elderly Rangers Representation Convention?
— Alex Waiting For The Cool Zone (@alexwritesloud) September 8, 2020
— Silver Ghost (@LuThaCEO1) September 8, 2020
And apparently, the characters are related. Arwen is either his cousin or his aunt, a hundred times removed. Not cool.
First cousins 51 times removed I think?
— Alex Waters (@RLampkin318) September 8, 2020
WHAT
— Hayden Flanery (@haydenflanery) September 8, 2020
When he was 15 she was 2628 🤢 i’m sick
— Alberto Buckley (@Abuckley000) September 8, 2020
And it happens again throughout the series. Clearly, J.R.R. Tolkien liked older ladies and thought everyone else should like them, too:
This series has a disgusting trend pic.twitter.com/6XfR0wIkrS
— muirab #BlackLivesMatter Defund Cops (@muirab5) September 8, 2020
smh pic.twitter.com/C3J2APeAni
— 🥟 (@GyozaWand) September 8, 2020
It happens throughout other movies and TV shows, too:
That’s nothing pic.twitter.com/S0qjxVeAAJ
— Dominic Cox (@Dominic_s_Cox) September 8, 2020
Just wanted to share this 97 year old age difference. What message is this sending our youth? pic.twitter.com/HYMEYM23Zp
— GR🐜 (@grantrodam) September 8, 2020
Amateurs pic.twitter.com/sdNjW8kHMn
— Spooky Cephalopod 🐙 (@Fly_Cuttlefish) September 9, 2020
Inappropriate.
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