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Seems about a good time to pull out my throw away.
I’m bisexual and haven’t fully come out yet. To answer your question, I’m attracted to some guys, but haven’t found any emotional investment in a guy like I can with a woman. I can definitely say “Oh yea he’s cute, I’d probably fuck him” and same thing with woman. But, again I’ve never found any emotional connection to guys as of yet. —ThrowawaytimeMrbi
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I still am kinda having a sexuality crisis, but for me I look for basically the same traits in both genders. Someone who respects and is willing to do things you like as well. Not the relationship revolving around them, and definitely not the other half-assing their part. Seriously, some people these days have problems with not even giving half the effort in a relationship. —booshweebie_
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I frequently tell people that The Todd from Scrubs is my sexual orientation – you don’t even have to be “conventionally” attractive if you have a good personality. Physical attractiveness matters very little to me, but I find I look for the same qualities in anyone, regardless of gender; things like honesty, loyalty, a good moral compass, and humor.
However, I tend to want to be the more assertive one in a relationship with a man, where with a woman I would prefer someone more assertive than me. I think as an assertive woman I admire other assertive women, so perhaps that’s where that comes from. —briittanyy
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For me attraction is all mental. If we connect well I’m interested, gender is pretty irrelevant. My type is nerdy, adventurous, passionate, but also laid back overall and kind/caring —DaughterEarth
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I like twinks, and I like goths. I’m a simple man —Pit1324
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Hi! The beauty of being bisexual is you get to enjoy the wonder each gender has to offer.
Femininity and masculinity are both gorgeous traits, and no matter people’s identity, you encounter different levels of each in everyone.
To me, masculinity feels like hugging a mountain. It’s strong and alive, think of standing on a rock and feeling an underground river. Its sensitive and firm and alluring.
Feminity is like standing in the sun. Its powerful and brilliant, but is also gentle. Think of trees standing in the wind. Flexible yet unmovable, totally royal.
These traits overlap in a lot of places but are distinctive by person.
No matter who im with, honesty and passion are always the most attractive things in a person. Will you be authentic? Will you meet me halfway and be eager to live?
Bisexuality taught me gender is a constantly fluctuating spectrum. There arent hard lines or set rules. Its whatever you end up loving, and theres much to love, whether your a man, woman, nb or fluid —write_into_the_grave
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Bi cis female here. That’s a really hard question, my “type” is kind of all over the place when it comes to both genders but usually I like more manly men and more feminine women, though there have been exceptions to both of those.
I find it a lot easier to develop crushes on women, it usually happens soon after meeting them but with men I need to know them for a long time and become attracted to their personality. There are guys who I can look at and say “he’s hot” but it’s not as common or as easy as the way I feel about women. I’m a lot pickier with guys
In terms of common traits I like, totally different for each gender. It’s confusing even to me sometimes but I can’t really think of any similarities between men I like and women I like. —ihopeyoulikeapples
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I find myself liking both masculine and feminine men, and I like feminine women. So you could say there is some overlap, lol. I enjoy romance, but it comes out more when I am with a woman.
Physical features are different based on sex two. I love a set of nice legs on a woman, men I find myself more into their torso and arms. (Of course I enjoy tits.) —AssumeImNot
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In men and women I like personality first, then I grow the feelings. I prefer similar traits in both genders. If we’re just talking about what I find hot, then it’s hair, first and foremost. This dude I’m into has this beautiful, longish blonde hair. It’s literally amazing. One of the girls I’m into has her hair buzzed around the sides and grown out in front. It’s really curly and adorable. Other than the obvious (breasts) I don’t really have gender specific trait preferences. —whatwillIletin
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My taste in men is way different from my taste in women seeing as i usually go for short, feminine guys who are Subs. But when it comes to women i like a women who’s tall or even taller perhaps, kinda tomboyish but not too much i guess and are Doms. —The_Molotov_Head
