Jon
There are all types of people in this world with all types of sexual fetishes. As long as nobody is getting hurt and everything is consensual, I say do whatever makes you happy. But when one partner has a fetish the other partner isn’t really into, it can cause some tension in a relationship.
Redditor u/Zizzzou asked earlier this month “What fetish did your ex have that did absolutely nothing for you?” and it really makes sense why these people are exes. Like I said, it’s hard to be in a relationship with someone who has a fetish you aren’t into. Redditor u/hlgb2015 said it best: “Thats the thing with fetishizing vs having a preference. When you fetishize a group of people, they become a preconceived set of bias’s in your head. It makes it hard to see them as a unique person, and consequently, make it hard to value them as a unique individual as well.”
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Car sex. I drive a tiny smart car.—u/Stargaze1534
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My ex would always painfully squeeze my nuts right after a BJ. When I screamed she would just look at me and say “you’re welcome.” She thought she was being kinky… all it did was give me an irrational fear of getting a BJ ever again.—u/IceMaverick85
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My wife is in to tentacle hentai, it’s not really my thing but i love her so i put on the the squid monster costume.—u/mainlyupsetbyhumans
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I once had a guy that asked me to wear my work uniform. I worked at McDonald’s at the time, back when we wore clunky polyester…—u/halcyonmeadow
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She wanted to be woken up with sex, but it did nothing for me because she always woke up first.—u/Delica
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I once dated a guy that told me he had a thing for waterboarding. As in, he had waterboarded his exes (with their consent). That’s a nope from me, brah.—u/Contrarian_C*nt
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She would absolutely quiver about having her eyes licked. I didn’t know that oculolinctus was a thing until I dated her.—u/House_Mehul
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He liked the idea of fooling around in public and almost getting caught. I like being in my apartment or hotels or places that it’s totally normal and acceptable to bang. The anxiety of almost getting caught was a turnoff to me.—u/brokenhippie91
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He absolutely loved it when people washed dishes. I wish I was kidding, but it got him sprung to watch me do dishes. He also worked in a dish room at a local college, which was uncomfortable.—u/HeCallsMeRoo
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My Ex had a fetish for calling me ”Mommy” but it made me super uncomfortable and was a factor in our break up—u/Captin_Novacine
