People Who Are Good At Flirting Are Sharing Signs Someone’s Interested In You (15 Posts)

11. Mirroring Body Language

“Mirroring body language. This is a tactic employed by people who work in sales and it’s not always conscious. This is a psychological disarmament tactic we, as humans, deploy on each other. In the case of someone who likes you, while interacting, watch for repetitious patterns and mimic their body language. Eventually, if you cross your arms and the person who’s attention you are seeking does the same, for example, you can rely on that being a good sign. That’s not to say you need to reposition or fidget while interacting; remember, being comfortable and at ease is a way bigger turn-on and ultimately lends itself to a more approachable experience for all parties. After all, ‘acting natural’ is the penultimate jedi mind trick.” — flungkle

12. Watch If They Get Flustered

“When someone is usually composed in conversation getting nervous and mixes up word when talking with you. For example, I met a girl and her friends (who became my friends too) the night before her birthday, I didn’t speak much to her but when we were departing I wished her a happy birthday for tomorrow, she replied ‘you too’ then got all flustered as she left the train. I watched her on the platform get teased by the friends.” — LittleMzZombie

13. Be Confident

“When you’re bad at flirting, it’s not that you don’t see the signals. It’s that you don’t interpret the signals correctly, or convince yourself that it cannot possibly mean that when you see the signal for what it is. At its root, it’s a confidence issue. So it’s not fixable by other people being more obvious or knowing what to look for. You gotta fix yourself.” — juicius

14. Don’t Take Advice From Reddit

“Don’t take flirting advice from Reddit.” — dantheman724

15. Invite Them Out

“What I normally do is say something along: I really enjoyed chatting with you! Perhaps one day we could continue over a coffee. That’s it, no definite date, no compromises made, but I do look at their reaction. Any sign of doubts, is an implicit no, which shouldn’t be pushed forwards, but if there’s an emphatic yes, then you are onto something.” — fdf_akd

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