Men Are Revealing The Things That Make Them Feel Sexy (17 Posts)

Feelings don’t have anything to do with gender but there’s no doubt that people associate feeling a certain type of way either “masculine” or “feminine.” If a man is feeling big and strong, we wouldn’t blink an eye, but walking around talking about how fragile and weak (aww, poor guy) might not be what you’d expect to hear from a dude.

The men of Reddit are talking about another feeling you typically don’t associate with being a dude: Feeling sexy.

Or as some might call it “Feeling themselves.” Of course, everyone feels sexy here or there. Some more than others for sure, but there’s no doubt it’s easier for a woman to express that she feels sexy, that it does for your average Joe.

User ant_honey6 posted:

“I feel like “feeling sexy” is generally a feminine thing. What is something masculine that you do that genuinely makes you feel sexy?”

And the results are a fantastic guide for men who might need some new techniques for feeling sexy.


1. A Few Good Suits

“I love a good suit. I don’t have the opportunity to wear one very often, which is shame. I have 4 tailored suits, and god damn do I look amazing in them. Paired with a great shoe and I feel like I can conquer the world.” –mrtoomin

2. The Meathead Routine

“That pump after lifting weights makes me feel sexy. Feeling my chest and shoulders pushing against my shirt more than they did an hour ago. Also, being fresh and clean after a shower makes me feel sexy.” –huuaaang

3. The Perfect Reverse

“Putting my arm on the headrest when I’m backing my vehicle up.” –claytonbridges

4. The Gym Rat Technique

“When I am fit, well groomed and dressed up to the max going out is basically the male equivalent of being sexy. The only practical difference it makes is in the level of female attention I get.”- loki0111

5. Basic Self Admiration

“Look at myself naked in the mirror and say “nice c-ck bro” –altagyam_

6. The Handiman Technique

“Fixing things, getting to whip out the pocket knife or multi tool, giving an orgasm.” –Three_Purple_Scarabs

7. The Tasteful Nude

“Posing for a tasteful nude calendar wearing nothing but a fireman helmet.” –MeatSafeMurderer

8. A Pair of Short Shorts

“7” shorts.” –yellow-man-420

9. Summon the Confidence from Within

“Working out, mowing my lawn in a tank top, going out in a nice outfit, etc. It’s important to be able to feel good on your own since people don’t dole out praise to men nearly as readily as they do to women. We need to be able to summon confidence from within.” –TheEmperor0fNothing

10. The Master Chef Technique

“Flipping a grilled cheese and both sides are cooked perfectly.” –xKaliburn

11. The Dapper Biker Technique

“Cuff links? Just that little extra attention to detail. Also when I dismount my bike while it’s still moving.” –Sheer-Dumb-Luck

12. The Old Fashioned Way

“Being told I’m sexy.” –ButtholeBanquets

13. A Crisp White Tee

“Crisp white shirt.” –shitmcshitposterface

14. A Fresh New Cut

“Haircut and finishing exercises.” –Yorgyschmorgies

15. The Sexy Sailor Technique

“Tying specialized knots. Something I learned as a kid and my wife loves I know how to. I also enjoy fixing small things on my truck.” –nostrawplease

16. A Sexy Brisket Reveal

“Unwrapping my slow smoked brisket after its rested for a couple hours. Dripping in juices and flavor. Ready to be consumed.” –shichiaikan

17. The Scottish Technique

“Chucking the kilt on. It just does things to a lot of women.” –GingerTube

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