Put your rage away, these answers are all lovely. By and large, men LOVE it when we know what we want and can communicate it. I mean, wouldn’t you? Makes their lives so much easier! On Reddit, u/sparklingshanaya recently asked:
“Dear Men. What are your thoughts about a woman who is straightforward with her sexual desires towards you?”
Here are some of the best answers.
1. No guessing
I appreciate those women. I don’t like having to guess.
There is nothing more relieving than being with a lady who tells you exactly how she feels and what she wants. It’s so important.
Suspicious at first, then enthused.
4. If we like her back
Straightforwardness is welcome if the attraction is there. Initial interest is key though.
5. Does there need to be one?
What’s the catch…
I had someone be INCREDIBLY direct with me after meeting once. I hid my wallet and told my best friend to check on me just in case. I just couldn’t believe that someone was that interested in sleeping with me.
Sure it’s good when ladies are honest
Finally someone who understands how to communicate with me!
9. The first night
After flirting with a woman for half an evening at a party, she came over to me, sat on my lap and whispered in my ear, “so, are we going to your place or my place tonight?” Now, I’ve always been blessed with a healthy amount of self-confidence; not too much to seem egotistical but just enough to be myself and be content with rejection. That moment rendered me dumbstruck. After what seemed like a full minute, I remember looking up at her and saying, “uhhh, I have room mates. What about you?”
She stared me straight in the eyes and said, “we’re going to my place tonight. Let’s leave soon.” It was one of the sexiest, most incredible things a woman has ever said to me. Her self confidence and decisiveness fucking scrambled my brains in all the good ways. That was probably 15 years ago and I remember it like it was yesterday. We dated for about 6 months after that and it didn’t end up working out, but I’ll never forget that first night.
10. Three thoughts
This is nice. Am I being pranked? This has gotta be a serial killer.
11. Self burn
I appreciate the honesty but it is a little bit of a bummer when a women is straightforward about her lack of sexual desire for me 😂
12. Married her
I’m married to such a woman. And let me tell you there is nothing better than someone saying “let’s skip dessert and go fuck in the back seat of the van like two teenagers”
13. Prefer it
I prefer it. For me the challenge is finding a woman who is straightforward and has sexual curiosity to be open to exploration.
14. So specific
One of my fantasies is a portal opening in front of me and an attractive middle aged woman in steam punk gear pops out and says she’s my wife from the future and she’s here to bang me throughout time.
I was visiting an island off of Indonesia called Gilli T. I was walking riding a bike home from a bar and this woman popped out from the alley and startled me. She said “hey, where are you going?”. I told her “I’m going back to my room”. She then says “I’m coming with you. I am going to give you the best blowjob you ever had. For free!”. I was like nahhh I’m good and rode my bike away. Figured it was a scam to rob me.