11.
If someone only ever talks about themselves, never asks how you’re doing. That’s a one way street I have no interest walking down.—cloudsarehats
12.
When you can clearly hear them rummaging through your bathroom cabinets while talking to themselves for 30 minutes, which happened this past weekend. That ended the new “friendship” very quickly.—u/Halo462
13.
For me, as a gay man, it’s when a girl makes a comment about having/needing a gay best friend, or says something like “gay people are soo funny” or clearly starts to treat me differently (in a superficial way) when they find out I’m gay. It makes me immediately see them as shallow and I feel like I’m being used as an accessory.—u/unrelator
14.
If the person rants and raves about politics and doesn’t discuss anything else, ever—u/Mister_Met
15.
Completely negative and complains. My neighbor’s been trying to get to know me and he does nothing but complain about things and people. It’s hard to try to get to know them when I bring up any topic or common person and it’s nothing but complaints.—u/rastapasta9
16.
i feel like this might be more of a high school thing, but when I started becoming friends with more ‘popular’ people and they thought making fun of my old friends or other unpopular friends was a good way to bond—u/ThrowZincAway
17.
When you don’t like them. I swear people miss this one all the time. Simple but so important. When I stop liking a friend for whatever reason (usually I find a side of them that I can’t stand) I’ll drop them. Somehow, most people I know would just stay friends with them.—u/Cynderelly
18.
Getting super close really quick is a friendship red flag for me. The last time that happened I was the “rebound” and the person only befriended me in spite of their ex bff.—u/catlover2303
19.
Someone who constantly talks about how they suffer from so and so mental disorder and uses that as their excuse to act the way they do. (I am fully supportive of any mental disorder and have full sympathy and support of anyone suffering from mental disorders, this is purely personal experience)—u/StarfishBlubBlub
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“I just usually only get along with guys”—u/mrsemig