Woman Blasts Starbucks Employee: ‘You Came And Knocked On The Door While I Was Changing My Tampon!’

A TikTok user was furious at employees of a California Starbucks for not giving her enough private time in the bathroom.

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Jolie (@blesstmomma) said she was in the bathroom at a Starbucks in Sacramento trying to change feminine products when, according to her, an employee knocked on the door after just a few minutes (scroll to the end for the full video).

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Jolie then recorded a confrontation that she had with the employee, who accused her of yelling at him.

The employee said, “I’m not going to allow you to continue using the facilities here because you disrespected our third place.”

(If you’re wondering what a “third place” is, that’s a Starbucks term for “a warm and welcoming environment where customers can gather and connect.”

Jolie denied that she was disrespecting anything, saying “I was respectful, but you came and knocked on the door while I was changing my tampon.”

She added, “I think you should have left me alone when I’m in your toilet.’

Then a security guard got involved, telling Jolie that he could “go hands-on if I want to.” Which we assume means, “I can throw you out of here if you don’t leave.”

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Then things got weird, as another customer tearfully came up to Jolie and asked her to stop “yelling and screaming.”

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The lady said her husband is dying and she comes to Starbucks to relax. She’s then led away by the employee.

So yeah. A weird situation all around. Jolie then posted a follow-up TikTok showing more of her confrontation with the security guard.

Both videos are below, so judge for yourself: Who was in the wrong?

@1blesstmomma

I’m a rewards member! I’m so upset. 5874 Antelope Rd Sacramento CA 95842 Starbucks you have lost a customer! @Starbucks #YellowstoneTV #fyp #viral #explorepage #greenscreenvideo #starbucks #coffee #momblogger #womanrights

♬ original sound – Jolie

@1blesstmomma

This part was cut from the video because my son made it dor menbecoyesterday when i left i was so upset I couldn’t go back to work . Its a little confising bc when I noticed i started my period he had already started knocking telling me to get out. I was teying to place a mobile order and on FB comments and using the restroom. When i came out i was finished i rushed out bc the staff started saying i was in there long enough and i said mind your fucking business. #starbucks

♬ original sound – Jolie

h/t: Daily Dot