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Men Are Sharing Their Best Sex Tips, So Listen Up Guys (16 Tips)

On Reddit this week, u/pirobinha asked men:

“What is a great sex tip you have to share with other men?” 

The answers they came up with are pretty good — take some notes!


1. Don’t spit

“If you’re going down on someone for the first time and you inevitably get hair in your mouth, don’t spit it out, as it kills the mood. Instead, lick their upper inner thigh to get it off your tongue.”—u/BloodandSpit

2. Don’t force it.

“Helping a woman finish is usually more about rhythm than force. If you struggle with rhythm, try putting on music with decent bass. If she starts breathing hard, twisting around, or says, ‘I’m close,’ change nothing! Changing things at this point can be very effective, but it’s also complicated and usually requires a good amount of communication. So if you are looking for sex tips, start there: Change nothing when she is close.”—u/Tinstam

3. Use the flat part

“Use all of your tongue, particularly the flat part. Not just the tip. More pleasurable for the other person, less tiring for you. Also, lightly sucking works wonders.”—u/RickMoneyRS

4. Advice is fine

“If they give you advice during, do not take it personally. It isn’t an attack on your abilities, but a way to make it more enjoyable for both of you.”—u/theshrexpert

5. Wash

“Guys, after having anal sex make sure to pee and wash, or else you can get a nasty UTI or prostate infection.”—u/Dodecahedrus

6. We say what we mean

“When they say, ‘Just like that,’ that’s what they mean.”—u/grenlick33 

7. Make noises

“Don’t be afraid to make noises if your partner is doing something you are really enjoying. Also, just tell them: ‘Yes, right there, ‘Faster,’ ‘Slower,’ or ‘Keep doing that.'”—u/BeefyIrishman

8. Squeeze my shoulder

“The old ‘squeeze my shoulder if something feels really good’ works wonders for shy partners too.”—u/JaQ_In_Chains

9. Cut your nails

“Cut your nails. For obvious reasons.” —u/joesmith302

10. Oh god, no

“Don’t have sex after cutting jalapeños. If it’s on your fingers, it’s not a good situation for the other person.”–5mash50

11. Vocal!

“Don’t be quiet. Let them know you enjoy it. Compliment them on different parts of their body. Nothing in this world is hotter than a man who’s vocal during sex.” —u/Niamho2

12. Prep for it

“Do male kegel exercises regularly. A part of male kegel exercises for sexual pleasure is for a man to stand while stimulated and fully erect. Lifting your unit is like making it do a sit up 100 times a day.” —u/broadsharp

13. Pesky condom

“If you kneel on the floor with the other person on the bed when you’re giving oral, you can put the condom on while you do it. This stops the mood being ruined by stopping to put one on.” —u/b1gziggy

14. Toys

“Toys are your friends, not your rivals.” —u/Iisham

15. Seriously, don’t SPIT.

“Don’t spit on anything or slap anywhere unless you asked about that first. Seriously. Doing the dumb shit you see in porn is the fastest way to make a hookup a one-time thing. Always ask first.” —u/CilantroLime

16. It’s FUN.

“Have fun. Play. Laugh. Sex can be weird and funny, so just go with it. Be good, giving, and game to try new things, especially if your S.O. is interested in something.” —u/ripplerider

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