Kate Hackett
There is a subreddit over on Reddit all about major confessions just to get them out into the world. The r/TrueOffMyChest is “a place for people who need to speak their mind” and it helps get some serious stuff, well, off your chest.
u/New-Morning384 recently posted to the sub with a confession: she told the wife of the man her best friend was sleeping with that they were having an affair.
OP explains that she and her best friend are incredibly close.
Both me and my best friend are 20f. We had been friends for about 5 years or so. I considered her my sister because we were just that close. We tell each other everything.
One day, the friend told OP that she was hooking up with an older married man. OP was furious and told her to end it.
And she told me how she was hooking up with a married man (mind you he was 50 something with kids and grandkids). I told her to end it because she was being stupid. She knows that I don’t condone cheating. I try to keep an open mind but some things, like cheating, I do not tolerate.
But this best friend said the affair made her feel good about herself and, despite OP’s protestations, would continue doing so. The best friend even threw barbs at the wife for no reason!
But she said she is gonna continue hooking up with him because it makes her feel like good about herself. Her reasoning was that this married man would rather fuck her than this wife and that made her feel good about herself. I need y’all to know this- hooking with a married person is not a brag, it just means you are pathetic. I asked her what about his wife and she said she doesn’t care about his wife. Her words were “If his wife was being a good wife then he wouldn’t be out here fucking her”. And that just pissed me off.
So OP started to screenshot all the texts her best friend sent of those dates, their conversations, the gifts… And from there, she tracked him down on social media.
I screenshot all our texts. She would send me videos of them fucking together, their text convos, their “dates”, all the gifts he bought her, videos of him bad mouthing his wife, and so much more. So I saved all of that. I easily found him on social media because my friend was following him. That mf didn’t even make his account private. He posted pics of his wife,kids, and grandkids.
Then OP found this guy’s wife and sent her a text, blocked her best friend, and is just kind of in limbo now.
From there I found his wife on social media, followed her and sent her a dm with all proof. Then I sent friend a text saying , paraphrasing here, that she is the scum of the earth and I don’t want anything to do with her. After that I blocked her on everything.
I sent thé wife the dm about an hour ago and she hasn’t responded yet.
Quite a doozy! Reddit wasn’t pure kindness in the comments, which led OP to make a quick edit to the original post:
just posted this because I was pissed off at my friend and I just needed to vent. I didn’t expect the post to go off so I logged out. That being said fuck everyone that has called me names and telling me that I am a horrible person for telling the wife. She deserves to know the truth. Like I said I do not accept cheating and my friend knew that but she didn’t care.
OP explains that the wife deserved to know. She also further elaborates just how crappy her friend treated her through the friendship.
But thank you to everyone that has been kind and supportive towards me 💛💛. I really appreciate it!! A lot of people are calling my friend (well she isn’t my friend but idk what to call her) a narcissist and I think they may be right. She always loves being the center attention of the attention isn’t on her she’ll find a way to bring it on here. A lot of people were hooked on the fact she sent videos of them fucking and I should have added more context to that. So basically she has always done that because she knows it makes me uncomfortable. Every person she has hooked up with she has sent a video to me even though I said countless time to stop. She likes that it bothers me and she used to make fun of me for that.
She also says that this is not a fake story and will update it once the wife sees the message.
That being said a lot of people are saying this a fake story, I really wish it was because I lost my best friend someone I used considered my sister. Sure even though she was a shitty friend she was there for me when during the roughest time of my life. It just hurts a little for me but I know I’ll get over. The wife still hasn’t open the dm ( or maybe she saw it and hasn’t said anything) I’ll make an update if she responds if y’all want. Also my friend that I blocked, I haven’t seen her in a while. I have no idea what she is up to but I really hope she has come to her sense.
A fair few people replied with confusion about the videos.
One user wrote, “Sending you videos of them fucking? Do people actually do this…?” Another said, “..Who the fuck sends their friends explicit sexual footage of themselves. That’s just.. Ew.”
