TikTokers Are Sharing Insecure Masculinity Red Flags

There are certain things some guys do that just let you know they are insecure about their masculinity. Big trucks and a tough-guy exterior are two well-known examples.

TikTok user Richard wanted to know other people’s examples, so he uploaded a video calling for users to share.

He starts the video with:

“What is something that men do that let’s you *know* they are insecure about their masculinity?”

Richard goes on to share his masculinity red flag.

“As soon as a man refers to himself as ‘an alpha,’ you know that motherf***er is insecure.”

In the comments, people gave their own examples of fragile masculinity warnings.

Other users took it a step further and recorded their own TikToks.

This user says “It’s not the word ‘bitch,’ it’s the delivery of the word ‘bitch.'” Millions of women know exactly what this guy means.

This guy says it’s any man who denies a post-B.J. kiss.

(And his 2 million-plus likes tell us others agree.)

This woman bought her boyfriend a new pair of boots in what she thought was his shoe size, 13, except… he wore a size nine.

This man lives in discomfort every day of his life just so people think he has large feet.

In this video, TikTok user @multistan79 puts men on blast who have a problem with K-Pop singers.


#stitch with @richtiktoxic we all know they are just jealous of our kpop boys #kpop

♬ original sound – Julia

She has a point. What are K-Pop singers doing to hurt men??

Thanks to this user, we now know what the term “edgelord” means.


#stitch with @richtiktoxic this is probably more about insecurity in general, but yeah #foryou #fyp #foryoupage #duet

♬ original sound – cwelz_

Anyway, quick note to men: Nobody is judging you as much as you think they are. You can relax and wear the correct size shoe.