Bisexual People Are Revealing What They Find Attractive In Different Genders, In Case You’ve Ever Wondered (30 Posts)

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As a guy, I feel like sexually I’m more attracted to men and emotionally in a relationship I’m more attracted to women. —jman857

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I personally like very feminine people. To me it’s more like I’m attracted to a certain trait and I don’t care if the person is a girl or a guy. I do have a preference for guys tho —Autumnvibes1

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I mean, if you sexy, you sexy. Though I wouldn’t say it’s the same traits as I of course like those physical differences between men and women. Though both sexes can have a nice ass.

Personality wise I look for more, “softness,” and someone who can accept my independence and more strong nature. Whether man or woman, I’d love someone that can bring out my more affectionate and gentle side. —SillyBlackSheep

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When I see a hot guy v woman in the street, the sensations I feel are very different. An attractive man feels like a lightening zing to my body, while the woman makes time slow down and makes me feel like I’m a piece of caramel slowly melting/swirling. Very much an oooo v ahhhh situation – both amazing. —JaneDoEingItRight

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I’m specifically attracted to either tops or bottoms no switches —Extra_Youtuber

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For guys I want someone calm but smart and leader like, and with gals i want someone fun and creative —better-live-fun

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This question made me realize I’m attracted to extreme gender stereotypes and I don’t like it ):

Women: sweet, nice, someone I can take care of Men: strong, not too nice, someone who can take care of me

But overall, I’d say I’m attracted to someone who is passionate about something. Whether it’s playing an instrument, skateboarding, video or card games or whatever I don’t even care if I like it or know anything about it.

I could probably pick all of this apart and learn something about myself, but that sounds like a problem for future me. —mdubleyoo

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I have dated men, women, and a trans woman, and loved them all in their own way. I am currently in a gay relationship with a man. I guess I find a lot of things attractive about all genders. I find feminine men very attractive if I am thinking about f*cking them, but I find masculine fit hunks attractive when I think about them f*cking me. I love a fun flirty woman who is sweet and nurturing, but I also love an agressive dominant woman who knows what she wants. I love women’s bodies, their curves and boobs and legs, and how easy it is to have vaginal sex compared to all the prep work that is needed for healthy gay sex. I know its kind of rude, but trans women really can be the best of both worlds, I love the beauty and feminity of a woman, but with a penis to play with.

But at the end of the day, all that really matters is that we get along and love each other. Make each other happy and care deeply for one another. I guess I just want love like everyone else, I am just less picky when it comes to gender. —ElvenDeGeneres

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I am attracted to more muscular, conventionally attractive men – ie zack effron, robert redford, brad pitt, john ham, etc.

On the other hand I am more attracted to curvy/chubby women – ie my wife and most of my ex girlfriends.

However, personality, style, and interests sure go a long way to sway my preferences. —Speechisanexperiment

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Women who could beat me up and men who I could beat up.

(No beating up would actually occur) —battleroulade

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