Patricia Grisafi
Women sometimes find men perplexing — but it doesn’t have to be that way! The best thing to do is just ask the questions you want to ask to an actual person, but Reddit can provide a good platform for many men to share their perspectives.
So women are asking men the questions they always wanted men to answer — stuff like, do you like being hugged? How do you feel about commitment? And how bad does it hurt to be punched in the balls?
We’ve included some answers from men in our RuinMyWeek Community, in case you were curious.
1. Are Your Friends Just Being Nice To Me Because?
“Did your friends actually invited me or are you just being nice to not make me feel left out?” — feriruriru
RuinMyWeek Community Answer
Friends, guys and girls, will ask for somebody’s boyfriend/girfriend/significant other to be part of a night out. It doesn’t always happen, but it happens. If they do not invite that person, I’ll invite them myself because a night out with friends is always nice, not because I don’t want you to feel left out.
Anonymous
2. Do You Like Being Protective?
“Do men like it when females (friend/girlfriend) tell you they feel safe around you?” — 2muddy2
3. Late Night Chats
“Do y’all enjoy late night chats as much as girls do or it annoys y’all if it’s very often?” — spillbeanss
4. “Does It Just Flop Around?”
“What does it feel like to run with no underwear on. Does it just flop around? Does it hurt? Does the bouncing get you hard?” — Jurazel
5. Balls and Sex
“What the f*ck do you do with someone’s balls during sex?” — Apprehensive_Crew_93
RuinMyWeek Community Answer
Watching porn will probably get you to wonder about that. But, besides when getting kicked, balls are not that sensitive. I mean it’s nice if somebody does something with them but it won’t specifically add anything more to it. The head of the penis should get the most attention, given that it is the most sensitive part of the male genitalia.
Ananymous
6. Tall Or Short?
“How much does height matter in attraction?” — Indyalways
7. Affection
“How often do men want to be hugged? Does it feels clingy, if a girl offers it every now and then?” — spillbeanss
8. Vaginas
“Does what our vaginas look like truly matter to you? Like girls having longer lips and such. I’ve always felt incredibly self conscious about guys going down on me even if guys have never mentioned it before.” — MamaMingyu
RuinMyWeek Community Answer
I’ve never dealt with out-of-the-ordinary vaginas, most of what I got to see were fairly normal, and shaven. Pubes don’t bother me, I actually find it kinda sexy, I’ve even been stopped from going “down there” by a girl who had pubes, she might have felt self conscious. But I’d say, the most important part is taking care of it. I’ll have no problem going down on a vagina that’s being cared for, don’t really matter the shape of it, mainly because if you know what’s what, you won’t have to care about a girls “southern lips”.
Anonymous
9. Random Boners
“Is it true you really get random boners?” — kanyesbitch7889
10. The Attractiveness Of Your Partner
“Do you ever worry about what your friends think of the attractiveness of your girlfriend/wife? Like are you ever worried that people you know don’t find her good looking or judge you for being with her?” — MommaJ94
11. Making The First Move?
“What are some of your thoughts on girls making the first move?” — Ranagios
12. “Shooting Your Shot”
“Is it true that guys generally hesitate or avoid going up to and talking women that are super attractive? I mean like a 9 or a 10/10? Is attractiveness/appearance something that makes you stall when ‘shooting your shot’?” — hoodfairyy
13. How Can I Brighten His Day?
“I’m with someone who buys me flowers to make me smile – what would be something I could do similarly for him that is nonsexual that would brighten his day?” — justfineand
RuinMyWeek Community Answer
If you pay attention to what they do, do something along those lines. I enjoy music and going out to clubs, so, if instead of asking a girl out to a club, she asks me out, that’s something I would appreciate. If she’s my girlfriend, putting on music I like so we can enjoy it together. Small thigs like that, doesn’t have to be material, it can be anything that shows a deep appreciation of the other person.
Anonymous
14. Commitment
“What makes you want to commit ( be exclusive, or get married) does it have anything to do with your partner or more of ‘I have to be ready within myself first’?” —Secretly_Uninhibited
15. Fatherhood
“What do you think of fatherhood? Do you think the treatment of fatherhood is fair compared to motherhood?” — luciavfernandez
RuinMyWeek Community Answer
I think fatherhood is awesome. I, myself, would be so proud to have a child, or two, or however many I plan to have, but it hasn’t happened yet. I don’t know much about how it’s treated vs motherhood, but when I see a father with their child being responsible, I always think to myself that that person is doing a great job.
Anonymous
16. Punched In The Balls
“How much dose being punched in the balls hurt?” — Outline40
17. Emotional Struggles
“What struggles spring up for you because you are men, and what can be done to fix them, since it isn’t talked about enough?” — ALiteralLetter
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