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“I had been talking to the new girl at work. She had been over to my apartment once and we had gone running on a second meet up. We also had a movie night that turned into a light make out session at my apartment. (she still lived at home) I invited her over to make her dinner after those first few meetups and she brought her boyfriend. We all had a drink and then I made the excuse that I had to go out, and they had to go. No soup for you.” –carvin_it
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“I got invited to a concert out of town by a girl in my uni, just me and her and we had been on 1 date before. The date ended with her disappearing without a word, and after an hour or so i got a message from her brother who said he could drive me home for way too much money, but i kinda had to accept since i was stuck.” –imintosaliva
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“What would be about halfway through at dinner she asked how old I thought she was. I was 21 at the time so I assumed 21 like she had said. She then stated she was 17.
I got up. Placed money for the food on the table and said, “right. This was inappropriate.” And left.” –asassyjanitor
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“It was a tinder date. We went for lunch. She was so boring, gave one word answers to most questions etc. Final nail in the coffin was when she asked me what I did for a living and I told her and explained (I’m a manufacturing engineer working for a large car company). Just after this I went to the toilet… on the way back to my seat I notice she was midway through googling how much manufacturing engineers make a year…
I finished my lunch then excused myself to the toilet again but I just walked out and left.” –Gingerpowerrr
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“It was not a date, to me at least. I was invited to dinner and a movie by my physical therapist after completion of long term treatment after a car accident. I get to her house and a party is in progress. It is “Our Engagement Party”. She had told her whole family that we had been dating and now we’re getting married. They even had a banner with our names on it. I walked out. BTW, I am gay.” –RickWest495
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“I was at a party at a friend’s house in my early 20s and hit it off well with one of their friends. She and I were talking and dancing all night. Towards the end of the night we were cuddled up on the couch and I was getting ready to kiss her when she said “I’m so glad you’re here to keep me company, I’ve been so lonely since my husband was deployed.” She had not mentioned being married until that point and I literally pushed her off of me and noped right out of there and never looked back.” –Massive14
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“After the cashier at the restaurant made a mistake calculating the bill and accidentally overcharged us for the drinks she said “Aren’t your people supposed to be good at maths?”. We were at a MEXICAN restaurant, so not only was she being awfully racist, it wasn’t even the correct hateful stereotype! Also the dude was white.” –KrifPum-PumKrif
18.
“She said she left the last guy coz he drunk too much. She proceeded to have nine beers on each of our two dates. I struggle to go through three. My idea on drinking a lot is now somehow fuzzy.” –cbcking
19.
“I was being honest and told the girl that I was a virgin. She said, “sorry, I can’t be your first” and got up and left.” –randomguy4433
20.
“So I met this girl at a bar, we hit it off and talk all night. Got her number and scheduled a date. On the day – she’s happy to see me, all seems good. We’re walking around the local park and stop by a bench. Then I get blind-sided.
“So. We’re friends, aren’t we?” She states, massively emphasizing friends… uh oh. She then spews every cliché hint she can think of to indicate she’s not interested. “I’d love to hang out again, but I’m really busy – You’d make a great boyfriend to someone someday – I’m talking to this other guy and thinking of fucking him, what do you think? (She actually asked that!)” It was so embarrassing and condescending, why not be direct? I’m usually good at judging these situations, there were no signs before this to suggest she wasn’t interested. It caught me completely off-guard and I just freeze up, deer in the headlights.” –Hourly_Orange