Women On TikTok Are Sharing The Most Painful Things That Were Ever Mansplained To Them

Mansplaining is one of the many infuriating things that happen to women. Look buddy, did you really think I didn’t know how dams work?

Men will approach complete strangers and explain how things work to them.

Well, and by strangers, I mean women. It’s pretty clear that men wouldn’t dare explain to another man how to use a piece of gym equipment.

The most frustrating part of mansplaining is that there is a ton of stuff I really don’t know that would be nice to hear in simple terms. Can’t someone mansplain my insurance deductible or wind energy to me? 

Women on TikTok are sharing the worst mansplaining encounters they’ve faced. You can see the original video at the end of the post. 


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A customer in the store I work at told me that he had been on a round trip of Europe and I asked him where he went, and he said he went to Copenhagen and so I said, ‘Oh that’s cool, you went to Denmark.’ He said, ‘No, I said I went to Copenhagen.’ I said, ‘Yeah, I heard that, but Copenhagen is in Denmark.’ And he tried to explain to me that Copenhagen and Denmark are both towns in Sweden. – kimroberts805 


I once had a grown man tell me that women don’t fart. He genuinely believed this in his soul. I told him that he was wrong and of course women fart and he told me that biologically women cannot fart. I have no words. – lauraksebastian 


My period. Need I say more? – aidios_mariela 


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I once had a man break down exactly how much pain women feel during childbirth after I told him I had delivered two nine-pound babies, without an epidural. Like, sir, I did not stress test my taint just to have an illiterate argue with me about it. – nottheworstmom 


He didn’t know what mansplaining was…so I told him. And then he mansplained mansplaining…to ME. – yeeti_the_ziti 


I once had a man mansplain to me my own name. My name is Niamh, it’s Irish. So I met this guy, he had only ever interacted with me on WhatsApp, and so he said, ‘Oh you must be Ny-am.’ And I said, ‘Oh no, it’s Niamh, it’s pronounced like this, it’s the Irish language.’ And he goes, ‘No, it should be ‘Ny-am.’ And I was like, ‘No, it’s my name. It’s a different language.’ And he was like, ‘But there’s an ‘M’ in it. It should be Ny-am.’ And he just kept going and going as if I needed to get through my tiny woman brain that I was pronouncing my own name wrong for 22 years of my life. He wasn’t an Irish speaker or a native English speaker, he was Greek. – shamingdevalera 


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My Period. I have a period and every other month it hurts and this dude was “do you even know how periods work?”. I had a period for 15 years, I think I have a good idea. – littlepixiegirlx 


He interrupts me while I’m talking about women’s issues and goes “I’m gonna stop your right there because I’m a feminist so I should know what I’m talking about” and then proceeded to mansplain womanhood to me. Me a woman. And he thought he knew more about being a woman then me A WOMAN – yorktown1324 


Women can’t go around topless because they lactate. – kellandrasue 


A man explained to me the title of my poetry collection. – victoriagravesande 


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One time my boyfriend’s dad tried to explain to me how the spacing of studs worked in a wall… I’m a CARPENTER! – faithfullydopedup 


I’m currently pregnant and in the 1st trimester non-stop nausea, morning sickness PS it’s all day sickness. Went to the pharmacy to see if anything could help medication wise. The pharmacist decided to mansplain to me “you know nausea & morning sickness are a normal symptom of pregnancy.” As if i didn’t know like literally explained it to me as if it was going to be a lightbulb moment for me. – abigailjanebeauty 


I was playing Mulan at Disney World, and this little girl comes up to me and goes, ‘Hiyah! Hiyah! Hiyah!’ which is very common for little kids to do. Her dad looks at me and says, ‘Oh she’s doing that because in the movie Mulan, Mulan fights in the war against the bad guys. And I said, ‘You mean me? – kahnjunior 


I just had I a man tell me what teeth are. He told they stay in the mouth and they help crush up food right after he swallowed his filling and/or whole tooth he wasn’t completely sure which one was which. – dragontounge212 


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I was working out at the gym and warming up for squats when a man stepped onto my platform and asked if he could spot me. I politely declined but he did not get the hint, he proceeded to mansplain the mechanics of a squat. He showed me where to put the bar on my back, how my feet should be positioned, and how I should breathe. I finally had to interject and let him know that 1) I was a personal trainer, 2) [I] was a competitive powerlifter and 3) had a national-level powerlifting coach.- torybae 


My own major. I’m graduating next week. – witch_savvy 


My ex explained to me what a pillow is used for. He said the pillow is used to support the neck and the head. – victoriagravesande 


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So, a man took me to get tacos. I’m eating the chips before we get our meal and he’s like, ‘Do you like the salsa?’ and I’m like, ‘Yeah I do, it’s good.’ And he’s like, ‘Do you know that if you like the salsa you can actually also put that on your tacos?’ And I was like… ‘Yeah, I’m aware how salsa works.’ – chefshalo 


This morning my dad tried to explain to me that it was Thursday he would not listen when I said it was Wednesday. When I pulled out my phone and showed he he got really mad. – abigailbogner 


I was at work and I had to sweep the line. I was sweeping it and this guy that was working there at the time tried to teach me how to sweep. – cemeterybride 



Kirby. This little guy hangs on my backpack we go everywhere together. And on time I was at this restaurant, and this guy that works there came up to me and he’s like “Aw, I like the little Kirby that’s hanging on your backpack!” and I was like “Aw, thanks!.” this guy proceeds to go “You know? I bet you only like him cuz he’s cute. Have you ever played a Kirby game? They’re really fun.” I cut him off. I was like “Yes! Actually! I’ve played almost every Kirby game! He’s one of my favorite video game characters!” – amazonstolemyname 


Ofc I know what a pillow is I’m a pillow princess 👸 #feminism #mansplain #stitchthis #iluvwomen #ughmen

♬ original sound – Victoria Gravesande

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