The subreddit r/relationships is often full of kinda sad stories of people treating each other badly, but once in a while it offers such an absurd relationship problem, it takes over the Internet. Today, that story is one posted by u/ThrowRA_wafflehouse, who titled it, “My (29F) Boyfriend (29M) keeps getting into fights with a cook at Waffle House.”
She says she and her boyfriend have been together for three years. They’re doing pretty well financially and could eat anywhere. But her boyfriend loves to eat breakfast foods when they eat out because she says that when he was a kid, his mom would make him breakfast food for dinner when his dad was out of town. Freud, get in here, you’re gonna love this one.
Anyway, they wind up at Waffle House a lot, which she says she doesn’t mind because she’s “not a big eater.” The problem is that at the Waffle House…another side of her gentle, loving boyfriend comes out.
Folks, I cannot describe how important it is that you read this r/relationships post. It’s an absolute Hall of Famer.
My (29F) Boyfriend (29M) keeps getting into fights with a cook at Waffle House pic.twitter.com/w0J2mcsCjT
— This Jake Are Sick (@JakeMHS) May 12, 2020
She says that he always wants to go to the SAME Waffle House, but it’s gotten impossible because he and one of the cooks “keep chirping at each other” every time they go.
“BF complained about his eggs one time, because he likes them a little runny and they were served hard. The cook responded by giving him scrambled eggs. When he brought it up again the cook served him two hardboiled eggs. I think it was just part of the cook’s schtick, and it was kind of funny tbh, but my BF wasn’t able to laugh it off. When we left he was in kind of a bad mood, but we didn’t really talk about it.”
She says the following week her boyfriend wanted to go back to the same Waffle House. Again, the same cook served him the wrong eggs. Twice. He threw them at the cook, who then came around from the kitchen.
“They ended up sort of wrestling/fighting until my BF was like ‘this is bullsh—t’ and walked out,” she writes. “Nobody got hurt, but the few other people in there were watching and laughing a bit.” Then she says:
“This is the crazy part.: my BF keeps going back and ordering eggs and getting into fistfights with the same cook. It’s almost a ritual at this point. My BF orders runny eggs, the cook serves him some other version of eggs, and then they beat the shit out of each other. I quite going with him after the second fight, but he kept going by himself. They’re like Peter and the giant chicken from Family Guy, it’s the weirdest thing. They’ve physically fought like 6 or 7 times over this.”
Wow. Why does he keep telling her about the fights??
I’m sorry, that’s the least of all the questions we could be asking. Anyway, she says she’s tried to talk to him about his passionate relationship with a Waffle House line cook, but he just tells her it’s “the principal” of the thing. She doesn’t understand why the cook won’t just make runny eggs either, but says it’s like “he spends the week learning new ways of preparing eggs to piss my boyfriend off.”
They’re planning to move to another city and have been under quarantine, but she feels certain he will be at Waffle House as soon as lockdown ends. She mostly seems worried that she’s about to marry someone with a bizarre, vindictive, obsessive side to his personality that she never knew about before.
“Should I be worried that this side of him will come up later in our marriage? how do I get him to open up about this? Is this type of obsession a choice, or is it indicative of something deeper?”
Before we take these questions seriously, here are some reactions to this story: some people said it wasn’t real. To this I say:
If you call this fake you’re a cop. I’m going to bed.
— This Jake Are Sick (@JakeMHS) May 12, 2020
Many others said it was entirely possible because Waffle House is a lawless place. Of the people who believed it, the majority are pretty sure that her boyfriend is in love with this cook and they belong together:
I hope they team up to take down an IHOP
— Alan (@alan_maguire) May 12, 2020
It’s the weekend baby. You know what that means. It’s time to go to Waffle House and get in a fight with My Enemy, The Cook
— This Jake Are Sick (@JakeMHS) May 12, 2020
This is what makes me feel like it’s kinda fake. No way he wouldn’t have been banned. Unless the whole staff is in on it and they don’t destroy the place. I just feel like the second you throw your food back at the cook, you’re probably not gonna be welcomed back
— stevedominik (@callhim_mommy) May 12, 2020
Absolutely tremendous writing
— Jay Rigdon (@jayrigdon5) May 12, 2020
one of those ridiculously difficult and complex japanese omelettes lmao
— Tallulah Mae (@Luvagoo) May 12, 2020
Bf about to start ordering some sausage instead
— Sir Bayou William III (@TheDuckMane) May 12, 2020
eggnemies to lovers
— mollusc in the pudding (@mollusc_a) May 12, 2020
Pretty obviously the eggs
— Sir Bayou William III (@TheDuckMane) May 12, 2020
And brings his egg-beater, poached egg moulds, omelette flipper, and his copy of ‘1001 Ways to Serve Eggs’ with him.
— oscarfranklin #StopTheCoup (@OscarNMFranklin) May 12, 2020
Never before have I been more sure a story was fake, but more wanted it to be real…
— olivia (@hederahtweets) May 12, 2020
Part of me wants to tell you no this is not us, but I know this is totally us.
— AnesthesiaCG (@AnesthesiaCG) May 12, 2020
TBH I’m more expecting 40 years in the future, husbands still frequently tussle over the eggs he lovingly keeps making him wrong.
— the Sage (@the_Sage_BB) May 12, 2020
bf will inevitably become the first person to ever eat a century egg at the Waffle House
— X Æ# A# ∞ (@IslesFGC) May 12, 2020
this is my theory, it’s clear the bf is dealing with some serious trauma so it’s not surprising he has an unhealthy reaction to something disrupting his coping mechanism
— battle damaged purgatory hell world princess (@hipsterplus) May 12, 2020
I cackled @ that
— priscilla page (@BBW_BFF) May 12, 2020
The first rule of Waffle House is you don’t talk about Waffle House. The second rule of Waffle House is you wait to be seated.
— Didymus (@DidymusHaber) May 12, 2020
On the other hand, maybe her boyfriend needs therapy and to talk about his missing dad and his rules against breakfast foods. This is too many feelings to be having about eggs.